R-Gap
January 27, 2006

 

Q: How do you tell a woman that she talks too damn much????

 

(M): Honesty is the best policy. Just be straight forward

 

(F): What if the woman is talkative?

 

M: A compromise should happen…Take her to the side and let her know.

 

M: Not have scheduled times, but set up some type of compromise

 

M: If its my woman or just a friend, then it should be the same policy, be honest.

 

M: No matter how you tell her, woman don’t want to hear it. Argue your point and she will close her mouth.

 

 

Q: How do you tell if a woman is coach able?????

 

M: They know how to debate and listen to one another. Coachable sounds a little crazy.

 

M: I think you have to look at the decisions that she makes. Does she listen to you or does she listen to her girlfriends. I had a situation where my girl asked me about cars and then she wanted to talk to girl for a second opinion.

 

 

Q: Are you part Ho, if so…when does it come out?????

 

F: If you are part ho or closet freak it should be done in the bedroom. If your partner likes that, then there you go. 

 

F: What does ho mean? 

 

M: When a man is called, Ho. He accepts it. It’s the same thing for a man or a woman, but a man accepts it.

 

F: Would you take a woman seriously if she was a ho. You can date her. But would you take her seriously.

 

M: I probably wouldn’t date her.

 

M: Personally, I wouldn’t accept the connation from someone that called me a ho. In my 20’s…it was different. The difference now is that I have one woman.

 

M: Do you think that you are the same guy?

 

M: No I don’t think that I’m the same guy…

 

F: Once a ho, always a ho. You can change, but you still have that same connotation.

 

M: Men say she’s a Ho, but I don’t think its actually a bad word.

 

F: When someone uses that, how serious can you take that person? If someone is calling you that how much can you take in that person

 

M: Its used as a derogatory word. Period.

 

M: Its just the same things as if a woman calls another woman a bitch and then you call her the same name but its different. People need to focus about their present and not their past.

 

 

Q: What is the difference between thick and fat?????

 

M: It depends on your preference. For example, some women their build might be different. I’ve dated thick and heavy set woman…if we connect then it doesn’t matter.

 

F: Its all about the person and what they feel about themselves. Who can tell if someone is beautiful or not. IF in your stockings, then you can tell by the numbers on the back of the stocking.

 

M: it’s a certain preference, like, I don’t like skinny woman. I had a woman who was 6-4 220, and I was cool. Its about what you like and how you’re feeling.

 

F: I think for everyone looks, matter. Everyone wants somebody whos easy on the side.

 

M: Men like many different things

 

F: Women are willing to do this and that. Women don’t use the same terms. 

 

M: Its really about preference. If a guy says she’s thick then shes tight. I think Jill Scott is cute and attractive to ME

 

F: What is it about Jill?

 

M: Her eyes…

 

 

Q: If a guy approaches a woman…does he always want to hit it?????

 

F: Always…you can’t say always…but never say never. It depends on the approach. If it’s a stranger, then society makes you think that they always do.

 

F: A lot of times when you go on dates w/ somebody. You can tell if you’re going to get you some or not. I’m going to do something extra in the bathroom or get ready depending on what you want.

 

F: If you’re an adult and you know what you want…it all depends on how it goes down.

 

F: If I’m approached by a guy, I don’t know what he’s thinking. But I don’t want a man to approach me if he JUST wants to hit it, but I want more. Sure its probably the ultimate goal, but I want him to want more.

 

F: IF he finds out about that, then what?

 

F: Its my responsibility to make sure things go more than just sexual. If your interest is just to hit it, then I don’t want to talk to you anymore.

 

M: Lets be real. Initially, When I see an attractive woman, men are visual. SO when you approach a woman. I am looking at your body.

 

F: Some women are carnal. Some women think that they are emotional, but they are carnal too. The point is…do I want you in my space. I have to respect myself. Some days you just want someone to pay for the hotel room and just do it.

 

M: How are you looking today?

 

F: I’m good.

 

F: Most of the time, people buy the one that’s an aphrodisiac. I think its personal. More men buy the product to taste. White woman buy the aphrodisiac.

 

F: Why don’t you tell us about them?

 

F: One of them is the maple cookie. It makes your private area taste like maple. The other one is a screaming O. All senses are heightened. 

 

F: Stacy will be providing samples. And is willing to sell some tonight.

 

 

Q: Is it important for a woman to cum first???? Why or why not?????

 

M: From a man’s point of view, you want a woman to cum first. You don’t want to cum first. You want to take care of the woman. That’s what you want…but it doesn’t happen all the time. Every man wants to please a woman. But they can’t sometime. Just like every woman cant please a man.

 

M: A woman might be a little more advanced. Some people you meet are on different wavelength. Everybody has a different connection with someone else. Getting older, just knowing a woman is sexy to me. Back when I was younger, I didn’t care if a woman came first. But know its better.

 

F: I read somewhere that when a woman cums, it’s an energy booster, but in order to make it fair, you should work to try to have it both happen

 

 


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